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Chapter 17 The marriage and love (2)

4:16 AM, 6/11/2008 .. Link

Chapter 17 The marriage and love (2)
But I thought I have gone against marriage theorists more and more like one.
In fact the marriage is very good, it is a family, you are a master of the family, non- OK?
I am my own host! Which where am I it is home. This is enough. I say resolute and decisively. Yes, where dare love of believing also I, where still can believe the love. I begin to envy Xiao Cheng from the bottom of heart, envy that perseverance to the love of his.
It look at you,Xiao Cheng the potato knives of handle put down,in the face of me, say very conscientiously, that is different, you can only decide you oneself, but you were a master of a family, your life meaning has been expanded. Someone cares about you, care about the other side like you. That is to say, until you belong to you not merely, when being your husband, child, meaning of life of you you alone, you think until feeling that need too very OK not merely?
But I think the marriage is to a kind of very inhuman chains of the human nature. Why is there this thing? Not in order to let two people live and legalize together, protected by law, legalize, two people can together, if there is no emotion too, even legalize, should separate. I think two people of emotion it collects to be human nature die out together obstinately. What is the marriage really ensured?
This is right too, I do not think the illegal going bankrupt of marriage China and French is the key, the feeling that the more important thing is and need each other. The marriage is only a form.
But need each other equally even if there is no marriage, so why not want that form
Because the marriage has already not merely included needing each other.
Involve and go several families more, not more terrible.
I think, the legal protection of the marriage to those persons really in love and liking together, do not mind to themselves. However, people are social animals, a pair of lovers not merely need mutual trust, need approval of the society too. Reason why most persons in love choose marriage that perhaps that's why. You do not say either, can not it be happy to receive the marriage of the blessing by oneself? In fact, acknowledging it is the factor with happy marriage too of family's other members.
I have signed, thus, the words not finding the person in love, it is correct not to get married.
Quite right, actually the marriage was prepared for person really in love.
But how many people know the one wholehearted and in love again? Not only like this, N many people know perfectly well and does not love but still get married. Still some people do not know the other side is not as good as loving like imagination oneself, there is a kind of false happiness that looks like. Such as a friend of mine, she marries a man loving her very much, it is very kind to her, but she does not love him. But she tells us she will never do the thing unfair to him. As a result, she has met a person that loves very much oneself, the agony gets to die. I do not understand, since know that does not love the other side, why marry? This world, you can't affirm obviously what kind of person you will meet tomorrow, if with you the person can lead heart to live in you, is not that an obvious tragedy?
So, want the person that you love of concern with long-term prudent sight and confirm she just considers the marriage after loving you. If she does not love that man before being married, I think it is herself's fault, can't regard marriage as and exchange for the happy chip. But once get married, that is responsibility. Everyone may meet a good serious person tomorrow. But one really hopes for the happy person of the family, will not allow one's own emotion to overstep the limit arbitrarily, pull the grass up by its roots before falling into into by oneself. After all, what the marriage is born the weight of is not merely true love, much heavier than the extramarital affair.
Do you say, people should be responsible for oneself, or should be responsible for others?
I think I want to be responsible for others. So, it must be prudent to do things, this thing of getting married should be especially prudent, you since chose to marry the other side at that time, but got whole life ready.
Actually, don't form if can't meet, formed and managed hard soon, made the family happy, then resist the external force, but if is diligent, the family is unable to be happy, then for everybody's happiness, say good-bye early.
Yes, concerned the thing all one's life after all, even divorced the next day, concern the happiness of one day too. So it gets married to be must prudent, confirm the other side people that you love and you love, could marry the other side even. The love is bigger than any other things in the marriage, must not choose to have no marriage of love for other things. Once get married, it is a new beginning in life, would never know to a lone man from then on. I think, have families of true love, if separate that result that must be force majeure, the tragedy caused that it can not be oneself to go wrong, I believe the true love.
In fact uncertain, two persons in love might not just have a good result, even if they get married, the more important thing is that there is a good suitable way to get along, get along, have deep emotion can train out very. Talked about this, I suddenly remembered the small soldier, had remembered our lost love.
Yes, may not necessarily get along while being in love, but the person in love will be very willing to find the method of getting along.
Who says, sometimes the love will let people lose reason.
That to have, find in love liking people that getting along.
But meet one each other in love to can discuss wedding people that theory marries still very difficult, so it is an outlet not to get married.
Who say, in love to like, get along together, can kind perhaps, love let people become blind selfish often. A lot of TV plays are very good evidences.
Look, let those TV plays be misled again?

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